SECRET GARDEN IN THE HAM

Secret Garden in the Ham is a small, nurturing outdoor stay and play space in Merstham for young children and their families.

Created by me, Gemma, an early years teacher and mum, with a passion for outdoor play, slow pedagogy and a curiosity approach, the garden offers a calm, welcoming environment where children can explore and play freely and follow their natural curiosity, with their grown-ups close by.

This is not a structured or overstimulating space, but a gentle, nature-based environment where children are given time and freedom to be - to dig, pour, mix, create, imagine and connect with the world around them.

Each session offers open-ended, hands-on play inspired by the seasons, weather and the children themselves. Activities may include mud, sand and water play, loose parts and imaginative play, nature exploration, digging, planting and simple seasonal invitations. The focus is on the process of play and curiosity, not the outcome.

The garden is intentionally ever-evolving, shaped by the children, families, seasons and natural environment. Sessions run all year round, encouraging children to experience the outdoors in all its forms - from sunshine to puddles. Welly boots and waterproofs are recommended, and a change of clothes and towel are a good idea.

This is a small, intimate space where families can feel comfortable, seen and supported. It is also a place for parents and carers to slow down, connect and enjoy being present with their little people.

Inclusivity sits at the heart of the garden, with a commitment to growing an accessible space for all, supported by ongoing efforts to seek funding and opportunities as it continues to develop.

Come as you are, take things at your own pace, and enjoy time together in a space where curiosity is encouraged and a little bit of magic can be found in the everyday. I look forward to welcoming you and growing this space together 🌿

Gemma x

The garden entrance is on the right-hand side of our driveway. It is accessible for buggies and wheelchairs, and there is a buggy shelter which can fit approximately 6–8 buggies.

Please note this is an outdoor space with uneven, natural ground in places (grass, soil and paving), so suitable footwear is recommended. Welly boots and waterproofs are encouraged, especially in wetter weather.

There are currently no toilet facilities on site. Nearby toilets are available at Merstham Recreational Ground (Weldon Way) and Merstham Hub Library (Portland Drive).

Street parking is available outside and nearby - please park considerately with our neighbours in mind.

If you have any additional access needs or questions, please feel free to get in touch - I’m always happy to help.